How to win over picky eaters
Got a little vegetable-dodger on your hands? Don’t despair, we’ve got some top tips for taking the stress out of supper time…
Feeding children is fraught with emotion, the desire to keep your kids healthy and happy is very strong, so it is easy for kitchen table situations to get highly charged. It can be quite an unsettling experience when a happy eater changes their feeding habits overnight, and starts shunning everything you put in front of them. But most children will experiment with some form of pickiness or food refusal at some stage, and it is likely to be with the things you most want them to eat.
No one wants to cower to their children's demands like they are some kind of mini Alan Sugar. But it is easy to fall into the trap of offering multiple meal choices when your instinct is to keep your children fed, and dinnertimes can quickly turn into a battleground. But whether you believe in staying firm or being flexible, here are some ideas to help achieve happier meal times…
Get them involved
Browse through a recipe book together, or take a look at our healthy kids' collection online, and let them contribute ideas to a weekly meal plan. You could also try taking them shopping to a market or supermarket and letting them select a fruit or vegetable they want to try.
Growing your own brings a host of benefits, like fresher produce and saving money. Try something that's easy to plant, and look after, like a cress head, herbs or tomatoes, which can all fit into a windowsill box. They are bound to be delighted at the process and enjoy giving the cress a 'haircut' or picking tomatoes for their supper.
If you've got a serious veg-dodger on your hands then there are plenty of sneaky ways of getting the good stuff into them. Recipes like Spaghetti & meatballs with hidden veg, More-veg-less-meat Summer Bolognese and Pasta with tomato & hidden veg can soon start racking up their five-a-day. Finishing a meal with fresh puds like frozen fruit sticks is a great way of adding extra nutrients too.
Start small, think big.
Try offering really small portions on a plate so it doesn't look overwhelming, and you can always top them up as you go along. A starter of daintily sliced, colourful veg crudités is a good way of getting some good-stuff into your kids when they are at their hungriest. Keep sweet foods well out of sight until the end of the meal, if you are packing a lunchbox then try two separate boxes for sweet and savoury foods.
Patience and persistence
Don't expect immediate results, changing your child's attitude to food can be an ongoing journey and you may need to present a particular vegetable/dish a number of times before they are brave enough to try it. Familiarity is often key, it is widely reported that if a child initially rejects a particular food – it normally takes at least ten times for it to become accepted.
Make a meal of it
Put on some relaxing music and where possible sit down and eat together as a family. Making it a relaxing experience from the start can work wonders at defusing difficult mealtime behavior. Watching parents and siblings get stuck in can also be agreat incentive for younger children to follow suit.
Ironically kids that are over-hungry tend to be the most difficult to feed, miss the window and mealtime meltdowns might be on the cards. Batch cooking freezable recipes is another great way of reducing stress, meaning you should be able to sit down with your children as they eat and give them your full attention with a clear mind. Besides cooking after a long day at work with a toddler clinging to your knees is never easy anyway.
Family meals: Easy fish cakes
Family meals: Easy lamb tagine
Family meals: Easy beef stew with sweet potato topping
Family meals: Summer vegetable curry
Offering sweet treats as a reward for eating the main meal has the potential of setting up the ideology that healthy, savoury food is to be endured rather than enjoyed in its own right. Alternative treats like stickers for a reward chart might be just as effective for getting them to eat up, you could also try giving them a sticker for other things like trying something new or sitting patiently at the table.
Got your own top tips for dealing with picky eaters? We'd love to hear your ideas…